The new school year has arrived, and with it, fresh starts and new opportunities to support your child's academic journey. While grades and subject-specific skills tend to take center stage, one core ingredient crucial to academic success lies beneath the surface: a growth mindset. No matter the subject, skill, or context, this attitude towards learning acts as the foundation for navigating every hurdle they can and will encounter on their journey through life.
GROWTH MINDSET
A concept developed by researcher Carol Dweck in the pursuit of what determines success, a growth mindset is the belief that one’s abilities and intelligence are developed through hard work and dedication. In contrast, a fixed mindset believes that these abilities are innate or ‘fixed,’ and people are inherently good or bad at certain things. Shifting the focus to the power of effort and perseverance paves the way to accepting the gift of failure as a natural part of the learning process. It also allows children - and any learner of any age - to value progress over time rather than be deterred by instant outcomes.
Reframing discussions about effort helps cultivate this type of thinking. For example, instead of praising a student for being ‘smart,’ which implies success is merely the result of intrinsic abilities, they can be commended for their hard work and the specific strategies they used to address a problem. Or, they may be acknowledged for how far they came as writers or thinkers since they first started on a project. Celebrations that prioritize effort and determination offer critical feedback to teach children that effort drives success, not inborn luck.
RESILIENCE
One key benefit of a growth mindset is the natural encouragement of resilience. School and life are both full of ups and downs, wins and losses, celebrations and setbacks. Challenging assignments, difficult exams, and social dilemmas offer daily opportunities to make a choice: rise to the challenge or give up. When children face these setbacks, it is essential that they recognize them as temporary obstacles that are simply gifts wrapped in frustration.
Together, try to approach each new experience with a focus on what there is to learn from it, and in reflection, collaboratively brainstorm new approaches for how to address it differently in the future. This process allows children to achieve the mental fortitude - also known as ‘grit’ from Angela Duckworth’s popular TED Talk - to thrive through adversity, not in spite of it.
Simple ways to support the development of resilience include setting and monitoring goals during the school year, integrating opportunities to celebrate growth, and incorporating problem solving as a natural part of their experiences and play.
ADAPTABILITY
The world is always changing, and successful people have the skills required to adapt to those changes. A new school year is packed full of change: new teachers, classmates, routines, and material. When a child approaches the world with a growth mindset, it’s easier to embrace that experience from a place of curiosity and openness rather than fear or self-doubt.
Like so many other life skills, learning adaptability starts at home. As you demonstrate flexibility and a willingness to learn new things, your child sees you and learns to model this behavior. It can also help to talk through your problem-solving processes out loud with your child as you navigate new challenges together. As a team, explore how to approach uncertainty with a positive and flexible attitude.
Further, extracurricular activities and play both offer profound opportunities for teaching adaptability. Team sports, volunteering, hobbies and clubs, and collaborative endeavors all nurture the problem solving skills that help students navigate each new challenge flexibly and creatively.
CONFIDENCE
Fostering a growth mindset allows your child to gain confidence through their little wins just as much as the big ones. Unlike a fixed mindset - which views failure as indicative of weakness or incompetence - a growth mindset celebrates setbacks as opportunities for learning and progress. As a result, their confidence is not rooted in a belief that they will never make a mistake, but rather that mistakes are a healthy part of the process. They understand that when those problems arise, they are capable of handling and learning from them. A child who feels confident in their ability to learn and adapt is more likely to take on new challenges, ask for help when they need it, and see their own potential for growth.
IN CONCLUSION
As everyone prepares for the school year ahead, it’s important to remember that parents and teachers act as partners in every child’s educational development. By intentionally cultivating and celebrating a growth mindset at home and in the classroom, children are given the gift of an attitude towards learning that will help them not only succeed academically, but also thrive as resilient, adaptable, and confident individuals.
Written by Brandi R.