It’s May, the final month of the school year! This is the time when you really have to pull out all of your parenting superpowers to help your kids finish the school year strong. Putting in a little extra effort to set the stage for success during these final weeks can make all the difference.
Healthy Habits
The end of the school year often feels extremely busy. Teachers work to fit in their final learning objectives and organizations put on special events to showcase students’ accomplishments from the year. Because extra stress can bubble up as the school year winds down, maintaining healthy habits is a must! Encouraging your kids to focus on their three M’s (meals, movement and meditation) is so beneficial. Packing extra special lunches for the final weeks of school can provide a midday pick-me-up and bring kids joy. Just as important is the need for kids to get some energy out after school. For those who do not have sports or other physical activities built into their schedule, you can suggest that your kids choose to go on a walk with a friend, play with the family pet in the yard or go on a bike ride. Beginning and ending each day with a mindful minute is a simple yet powerful practice to reduce stress and calm the body down.
Built-In homework Breaks
If your nightly habits have fallen off, it’s not too late to get back on track. Assisting your student to create a daily homework checklist with both assignments and tasks to complete for upcoming projects and tests provides a concrete to-do list. Colored pens and highlighters can be used to prioritize or emphasize tasks. While some older students can create and monitor their to-do list independently, younger children often do best with support. Setting a kitchen timer with a goal work time (which varies greatly based on age and attention span) to earn a 5-minute break can help keep the worker motivated. Younger students do well with visual timers. You can mark the clock with a fun sticker to indicate when it is time for a break. Strategies to lighten the mood and make homework time more productive during the final weeks of school are great!
sprinkles of Encouragement
Have you started to feel more like a homework drill sergeant than your children’s supporter? If so, they could be feeling extra stress and pressure. Focusing on the positives and providing small accolades for hard work can be really powerful when students feel burnt out. You can leave handwritten post-it notes in workspaces, select fitting inspirational magnets for the refrigerator each day, or slide cute little greeting cards into your kids’ backpacks each Monday to encourage them to keep working hard. When they feel your support, they might be more likely to push through to the end of the year.
Daily Motivators
If intrinsic motivation is low at the end of the school year, small daily rewards can help kids make it through the last weeks of school. The rewards should be goal-focused but also personalized to bring your kids joy. Some ideas include: choosing a special dinner, watching a favorite TV show as a family, getting a free pass from chores for the night, earning extra screen time, and going out for frozen yogurt. For younger students, it is fun to create a deck of reward cards together at the beginning of each week and let them pull a random card each evening as they earn one. A little extra motivation can go a long way.
Written by Krista G.